Social risk
The greatest risk that many women fear taking is the social risk. Many choose to stay just below the glass ceiling, playing within the familiar boundaries. Some remain cloistered in their cocoon, reluctant to be the only one to come out and ask for more. Others hesitate to acknowledge their ambitions, as being ambitious is not a trait of being good.
Standing out, charting your own path, and vocalizing your dreams may set you apart from those around you. It may feel lonely for a while. But as you continue walking, you will eventually find someone from your tribe.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” – Anaïs Nin, French American diarist and essayist
Authority anxiety
You prefer not to be in the same elevator with your super boss. You feel uneasy when passing a senior colleague in the corridor. You wonder what to say, whether to smile or maintain a straight face in their presence. These are signs of Authority Anxiety – a discomfort that arises when in the presence of an authority figure. One way to manage it is by humanizing them, recognizing that beyond their titles, education, and sophistication, they are people just like you. While you may fear being evaluated for your abilities, they also worry about being judged for their leadership presence.
“I just remember that pivotal moment when you’re a young adult, and you realize that these authority figures are human beings, too, and they’re figuring out their lives just as you are, and they’re flawed.” – Gia Coppola, American filmmaker
Abundance mindset
Opportunities come to those with an abundance mindset.
Are you willing to share your ideas with your colleagues?
Are you excited to celebrate your peer’s growth?
Are you ready to help someone at work get more visibility?
Having an abundance mindset sets you apart from everyone who operates from a place of scarcity. It is not just a goodwill gesture – it’s a strategic way to advance your career or build your business.
“I have an abundance mentality: When people are genuinely happy at the successes of others, the pie gets larger.” – Stephen Covey, American businessman and author